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Chapter I, Begin Here

Chapter I

Begin Here

Every curiosity has a chapter. This one opens the door.

Most people arrive at this subject with more questions than vocabulary. That is entirely normal, and it is the reason this chapter exists.

Still life for the chapter Begin Here

In this chapter

How to narrow down what you are actually looking for · How to read product descriptions, materials and dimensions · The difference between battery-powered and rechargeable products.

Sections in this chapter

  1. 1How to identify what you are looking for
  2. 2Understanding product descriptions
  3. 3Materials and sensitivities
  4. 4Choosing a comfortable starting point
  5. 5Cleaning and storage fundamentals
  6. 6Battery-powered versus rechargeable
  7. 7Reading dimensions carefully
  8. 8Privacy and discreet storage
  9. 9Questions to consider before purchasing
  10. 10When to consult a healthcare professional

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Material and fit notes

Materials first
Material is the single most useful thing to check on any listing. Look for a named material such as platinum-cured silicone, borosilicate glass or ABS plastic, and treat vague descriptions with caution.

Terms from the Index

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The Considerate First Drawer

Everything a first collection needs, and nothing it does not.

A first collection should be small, forgiving and easy to look after. This one pairs a simple external product with the two bottles every bedside needs and a case to keep it all private.

The full collection

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